Being a mom is a hugely demanding role. And deciding to retrain as a lawyer has its own set of challenges and pressure. So, why on earth would anyone contemplate combining the two? Believe it or not, more moms than ever are deciding to embrace their career goals and take the plunge into the world of law, and all with their children in tow. All with the aspiration of starting their own firm from scratch or joining a firm like pintas.
So, if you choose to retrain as a lawyer how can you possibly juggle your learning and your career goals with your responsibilities as a parent? Surely it wouldn’t be long before mom-guilt sets in and you’re regretting your decision…right? It’s easy to anticipate being overwhelmed, however, it’s true that moms really can do it all. All you need is some grit, determination and some organization – something which most moms have in abundance.
Read on to find out how to juggle retraining as a lawyer and being a mom.
Prioritize
When you’re a mom, you’re constantly needed. Whether it’s to change a diaper, help with homework or read a story. But your studies will also require a lot of your attention too. The trick here is to find a healthy balance and prioritize the important things in your life. Focus your attention on either your work or your children. Turn off social media, unrelated emails, ask your mother in law to stop calling every hour. Focus your energy on either your studies or your children. You’ll be amazed at how much time you actually have.
Ask for help
It’s not going to be easy. There are times when you’ll want to throw in the towel and times when you’ll wish you never started retraining. However, those feelings will pass. Reaching out to loved ones and friends can help. Ask them to take the kids for an hour while you finish your essay, or ask if they’ll run some errands for you while you catch up. You could always speak to your tutor about your concerns too – they’re there to help you!
Spend quality time with your kids
Your younger children may find it difficult to understand why you’re busier these days, however finding time to spend with them is imperative, not just for them but also for you. Time away from your studies and the pressure you’re under is good for your mental health, it can help you destress and help you to remember why you’re making these sacrifices.
Final thoughts…
It’s important to remember not to be so hard on yourself. Once you find a study/homelife routine that works for you and your family, it’ll become much easier. Keep going and don’t give up!